Start Dating website guide

Dating website guide

So, by now, you’ve got a digital dating portrait worthy of Da Vinci.

NOT-SO-SMOOTH OPERATOR The scenario: “I recently received a message that said, ‘Damn you’re a pretty white girl, you into muscular black men?

(which isn't that great but man, that was, like, the dream of the '90s) or because I was obsessed with coding as a teen (shut up, I was so cool, you guys) or because I work too much or because I'm hardly ever at bars unless I'm performing and even then, when someone hits on me it's like throwing flirtation into the wind and hoping it lands somewhere near my brain. Seriously, if I had a dime for every time a friend told me, "Lane, they were hitting on you!!!

" or even, "Lane, they're totally in love with you and have been for over eight years," I'd have at least 70 cents, maybe 90.

And yet, it’s a common enough gambit that gets would-be daters shot down on a regular basis.) So, don’t be distracted.

Next, pay attention to the major parameters of what your potential date is looking for, and honor them.

With 40 million Americans now using online dating services, the chances of finding love online are higher than ever.

However, to make the most of this, you need to know how to play the game, which is where our online dating tips can help.

Wendy, a veteran online dater from the tri-state area concurs.